If I had won the lottery, I would spend most of it on helping people and setting up something that would help the needs of people and animals alike.
In this world, we spend so much time in our own lives that sometimes we missed a bigger picture. To stay grounded and authentic with ourselves, and be true to our hearts. I have to ask myself every day. What would the world do if everybody work together to help each other?
The world will be a better place to live in with the wars, no terrorism none of that. But that’s what I would do if I had a lot of money.
Having a keen sense of character has always been one of my strengths, allowing me to navigate personal and professional relationships with insight and foresight. I define this skill as the ability to accurately assess people’s motivations and predict their behavior, often within a short period of meeting them. I rely on a combination of intuition and careful observation, paying attention to subtle cues like body language and consistency in actions. And I always try to have a keen sense of someone’s character and their authenticity, which helps me build trustworthy relationships and avoid potential pitfalls. However, when it comes to online connections, it’s always very tricky because people can present themselves in ways that may not be genuine. They might tell you things that aren’t true, and you might believe them, or they may portray themselves as someone they’re not. As Chris Pine would say, social media is a double-edged sword; there are many pros and cons to online connections. I continue to refine my ability to judge character by learning from each interaction, both in person and online. Overall, being a good judge of character has been invaluable in ensuring that I surround myself with genuine and reliable individuals.
I have a deep appreciation for the comfort and simplicity of wearing jeans and a T-shirt. There’s something wonderfully effortless about slipping into a pair of well-worn jeans and a soft T-shirt that feels just right. It’s my go-to outfit for everyday activities, whether I’m running errands, meeting friends for coffee, or simply relaxing at home. This combination allows me to feel at ease and be myself, while still looking put together.
However, when the occasion calls for it and I’m heading out for a special event or a night on the town, I enjoy the opportunity to dress up a bit more. In these moments, I like to choose a nice dress or a stylish outfit that makes me feel confident and polished. There’s a certain joy in the ritual of getting ready, selecting the perfect dress, and adding those finishing touches that make the ensemble complete. It’s a way for me to express my personal style and embrace the excitement of the occasion.
I’m definitely a night person, and a big part of that is because of my work schedule. I usually work from 2 PM to 11 PM, which really shapes how my day goes. After getting off work, it’s tough to just switch off and go straight to sleep. I need some time to relax and unwind, which often means I’m up pretty late. Because of this, getting up early in the morning is a real struggle for me. I miss out on a lot of morning activities and sometimes feel out of sync with friends and family who have more traditional schedules. On the flip side, I’ve grown to appreciate the quiet of the night. It’s a time when I can focus on personal projects or just enjoy some peace. Still, it can be frustrating when I have to adjust for early commitments or when I feel like I’m missing out on things happening during the day.
I definitely need time for myself, especially with how hectic life can get. Balancing work and personal time is crucial for my well-being. Prioritizing tasks is also key—I focus on what’s most important during work hours so I can be more productive and free up time for myself later. Scheduling personal time is something I treat as a priority, whether it’s exercising, pursuing hobbies, or just relaxing with loved ones. I’ve learned the importance of saying no to avoid overcommitting and to protect my own well-being. Using tools like calendars and task apps helps me stay organized and reminds me to take breaks. Practicing mindfulness, like meditation or deep breathing, helps me manage stress and stay present. I regularly reflect on how I spend my time and adjust as needed to maintain a balance that respects both my work commitments and personal needs.
The way I try to live my life is guided by a few key principles: being patient, being kind, and being genuine. I believe in giving myself and others the time and space to grow, which is why patience is so important to me. Kindness is something I strive to show in all my interactions because I think everyone deserves compassion and understanding. And being genuine is about staying true to who I am and being honest in my relationships. These principles help me navigate life in a way that feels right to me.
What’s something you would attempt if you were guaranteed not to fail.
Acting….because I find the whole career very interesting and intriguing. You get to play different Characters and be creative as well and learn many new things. that’s why I like Chris Pine so much because he enjoys what he does. he doesn’t care about being famous. If I knew I wasn’t going to fail attempting this kind of career then I would’ve done it a long time ago. He’s my hero because he inspires me every day and I feel like he pushes me to do my own creativity endeavors to their fullest.
Today, I’m filled with doubt and discouragement. The holidays are especially hard since I lost my dad right before Thanksgiving. Christmas will be lonely again. I worry I’ll never find the job or husband I deserve.
As the festive season approaches, I can’t help but feel the weight of my emotions more intensely. The joy and togetherness that others seem to effortlessly embrace only magnify my own sense of loss and isolation. My dad was my rock, my confidant, and losing him right before Thanksgiving has left a void that feels impossible to fill. Each year, as the holidays roll around, the pain resurfaces, and the loneliness becomes almost unbearable.
I’m trying not to cry, but the pain of losing my dad and the loneliness are overwhelming. I wonder if anyone would ever be interested in an autistic woman like me. I’ve always been independent, but I deeply crave the companionship I’ve missed for the past eight years. The world often feels like it’s moving forward without me, and I find myself questioning if I’ll ever find the job or husband I deserve.
Being autistic adds another layer of complexity to my feelings. While I’ve always prided myself on my independence, there’s a part of me that longs for a connection, for someone who understands and accepts me for who I am. The fear that my autism might be a barrier to finding love and companionship is a constant worry that gnaws at my heart.
The job market, too, feels like an insurmountable challenge. I know I have skills and talents to offer, but finding a position where I can truly thrive and be appreciated seems like a distant dream. The uncertainty of my future weighs heavily on my mind, adding to the overall sense of discouragement.
As I navigate these difficult emotions, I remind myself that it’s okay to feel this way. Grief and loneliness are powerful forces, and it’s natural to struggle with them, especially during the holidays. I try to hold onto the hope that things will get better, that I will find the job and the partner I deserve. But for now, I’m allowing myself to feel the pain and to acknowledge the depth of my emotions.
To anyone else out there who might be feeling the same way, know that you’re not alone. The holidays can be a challenging time for many of us, and it’s important to be gentle with ourselves. Let’s hold onto the hope that brighter days are ahead, even if they feel far away right now.
Title: Clutter is the Worst! Time to Declutter and Simplify My Life!
Hey everyone!
I just had a major revelation, and I HAVE to share it with you all. You know that feeling when you look around your space and it just feels… chaotic? Well, I realized that clutter is the absolute WORST! Seriously, it makes you look so disorganized, and the crazy part is, I KNOW I don’t have that much stuff. So, what gives?
I think part of the problem is that we tend to collect way too much random stuff over time. You know, those little knick-knacks, old magazines, and clothes we haven’t worn in years. It’s like they sneak up on you and suddenly, BAM! Your space is overflowing with things you don’t even need or use.
So, here’s the plan: I’m going to get rid of all that unnecessary clutter. Yep, it’s time for a major purge! Why, you ask? Well, I’m planning to move back to California to be closer to my family, and the last thing I want is to drag a whole bunch of clutter with me. Moving is stressful enough without having to deal with boxes of stuff that don’t add any value to my life.
I mean, can you imagine stepping into a new place and immediately feeling overwhelmed by all the junk you brought along? No, thank you! I want a fresh start, a clean slate, and a clutter-free environment where I can truly relax and enjoy my new surroundings.
So, here’s what I’m going to do:
Sort Through Everything: I’m going to go through every single item I own and decide if it’s something I truly need or love. If not, it’s outta here!
Donate and Recycle: There are so many people out there who could benefit from the things I no longer need. I’ll be donating clothes, books, and household items to local charities. Anything that can’t be donated will be recycled responsibly.
Adopt a Minimalist Mindset: Moving forward, I’m going to be super mindful about what I bring into my space. No more impulse buys or holding onto things “just in case.” If it doesn’t serve a purpose or bring me joy, it’s not staying.
Organize What’s Left: For the items that do make the cut, I’ll be finding a proper place for everything. No more random piles or cluttered drawers. Everything will have a home, and I’ll be able to find what I need when I need it.
I’m so excited to embark on this decluttering journey and can’t wait to share my progress with you all. If you’re feeling overwhelmed by clutter too, why not join me? Let’s simplify our lives together and make room for the things that truly matter.
Stay tuned for updates and tips on how to declutter your space. Here’s to a clutter-free life and a fresh start in California!
Deep Thinking 